You’ve not been happy for a long time and you don’t think it’s meant to be like this. You want to respond differently to your partner, your children, your wider family, but don’t know how. There are things you experienced in your childhood that you’ve never really unpacked, but it’s finally time to open those boxes. You’re ready to do the work that others in your family didn’t so future generations don’t have to suffer like you did.

You love each other so much and want to make sure that you build the communication skills and mutual understanding necessary to sustain your relationship over a lifetime. You’re not willing to wait until you’re on the brink of separation - you know that the time to do the work is now and that high-quality marriages and partnerships don’t just happen, they are created.

You know that healthy families provide the foundation for a healthy society, not just now, but for generations to come. You don’t want to imitate the mistakes of those who came before you - you want things to be different, and better. You and your adult children are ready to learn communication techniques that will sustain your relationship now the dynamics have shifted. You’re not prepared to drift along - you want to do the work that will have consequences long after you’ve gone.

You can see that your teen isn’t the child they were. They behave differently - including towards you. It’s frustrating and hurts at times, but you want to understand why it’s happening and how you can work with the changes so that your relationship remains in tact during this new era of parenting.

You know that learning how to feed, bathe and change Baby isn’t enough to ensure that they thrive. You know that psychological development is just as important as the physical stuff, because what they learn implicitly during their very early years will imprint on them for the decades to come. You want to learn about infant psychological development so that your little one will grow up with healthy self-esteem and healthy understanding of how human relationships work.

You see all these people online talking about optimising their gym routine, sleep or diet, but you wonder why no-one’s talking about working on their thought processes and functioning in their relationships. You’re really interested in introspection, reflection and learning new concepts that stimulate thinking. You know you only have one life and you are determined to make the best of it - and the best of yourself. You don’t want to be like people around you who just repeat the same old patterns and never take accountability for the results. You want to consciously create your precious existence.